Wednesday 23 August 2017

Reasons I Won't Match With You On A Dating Site

So a couple of weeks ago, I mentioned that I was back on dating sites again. I'd mentioned how I was finding it so far, along with a few things I'd noticed over the course of my time on them. Well it's been a little over a month now since going back on the site and well... Interesting doesn't quite describe it.

With Badoo, the matching feature involves swiping yes or no on people's profile pictures. All you get to see is their name, age and job title, along with their main profile picture. You can swipe left for no, or right for yes. Or if you want to know more before picking, you can swipe their details up and see all of their profile. This includes their 'about me' and their interests, plus their general location.

So what makes me swipe no on a guy, or choose to pick no after they've said yes to me and started a conversation? Well there are a few things straight away that I will say no!

  • Only one profile picture
  • No about me section
  • Over the age of 38
  • Smoker
  • Under the age of 23
  • You send me a dick pic
  • You tell me my 'tits are amazing'
  • You tell me that 'I have porn star tits' < this has happened 4 times so far...
  • You obviously haven't ready any of my profile
  • You ask for nudes
  • We live too far apart
  • Have a username instead of actual name on your profile
  • You send me 100's of messages before I even get a chance to see your profile
  • If it's obvious you're just after a hook up
  • Has children my age - yes this has happened already!
  • Empty profile other than a picture and name
  • Unnecessarily aggressive when I don't reply with 'I know I am,' when told I'm good looking 
  • Calls me a 'bitch' for taking too long to reply

These are most of the reasons I won't match with you, and a lot of these things have already led to me blocking/reporting a dozen or so people. Some have been particularly aggressive!

Have you had any of these troubles on dating sites, or liked someone but then found a reason to now match with them? Let me know! Hope you have a great day and keep safe :)

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  1. I can't believe people are so rude! I mean, what do they think they're gonna get by sending dick pics/commenting on your boobs. It's not exactly a way to impress someone ... I hope you get some better experiences soon

    Steph -

    1. There are some really horrible people online, some are just creepy, and then there are that lovely 10% that are actually decent human beings! So far, not impressed with any of them, haha! xx


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